Tiger Woods: The Truest Victim

Over the last several weeks we’ve all been bombarded with numerous accusations from women regarding the Tiger Woods situation. Made to appear as victims, the media seemed to down play the fact that these women knew he was married from the very beginning. So the question becomes…why would you have sex with a married man knowingly?

The audacity to even appear on television and expose this man (for whatever the reason) truly shows how some women enjoy playing the victim from the word GO.

Hmmm….do they even know in the eyes of the plenty that they’re the ones who are the ill opportunist who played a major part in wrecking someone elses home for personal gain? What about the children? What did they expect. A book deal? Sheeesh man!…I’m not in support of cheating but if two adults agree to do adult things then deal with it like adults. As the famous motto goes: “if I can’t have him then nobody can!”. Now how weak is that!

In the meanwhile, the PGA anticipates the return of the Tiger….once the smoke clears. Until then, he sits and waits. Hmmph….women.

Refuse 2 Lose 2 The Game

….”I could do it better”. Lately I’ve heard those very words from a handful of grumpy young women outside a local convience store. You could do better huh..(oh boy!). Meeting new people, trying to decide what role they’re auditioning for in your life. Hurting feelings. Others attempting to hurt yours. Changing your mind. Wasting time.

I’ll make a wager that these chicks didn’t always get the results they were actually looking for. It surely takes a special brotha to share his most favorite spot on the couch while making that sacrifice to watch “Mercy” over NBA basketball on TNT.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m a casual fan of the “giddy” feeling you get when you connect with that new person. The “anticipation of what’s next”. That’s what I call the gratifying part… which could be absolutely fabulous with a capital “F”….but during that process you tend to encounter folks of ill repute who have nothing but selfish deeds and cruel intentions .

Honestly, I resent that the human need for companionship have brought people into my life who had no business being there whatsoever. Dating felt similar to a stressful, low paying job with no benefits. And just when you’re about to bail out and call it quits, a quick spark of spontanaity pops out their azz which keeps you around just a little bit longer.

We all tend to be more attracted to what’s missing in our lives. Anything else just dosen’t suffice. Unfortunately, many are lost to “the Game”. The hokey pokie dance we somehow find ourselves obligated to do. Hmmp! I’m all for decorum but there just seems to be too much foolishness, script and heightened false expectations with the idea of what people expect you to be.

I think I’ll pass…Love you T:)

Chicago Who?

Another day in the place we call Chicago. Wonderful city with plenty to do and things to see but to what expense?

With the highest county taxes in the country, corrupt state government and crazed fines, people appear to have it up to their ears with out of pocket expenses. Do they not realize we’re living in a recession where jobs that pays are at a minimum? (unless you’re connected with the Strogers of course)….real talk.

With tourism at an all time low due to the expensive nature, we’ve only just begun to see the lasting negative effects of what was once considered one of the greatest places to live. Oh yeah, let’s not forget how we’ve just recently lost 4 major conventions stemming from greed and sheer incompetence! Shyat what’s next…the infamous auto show or maybe even the weedfest. Dayum!

What once was “My Kind of Town” has turned out to be the town nobody wants to live in….is that another ticket on my car? Dayyyyyummm!

Lost in Traffic

Why is a 30 minute car ride taking us nearly 2 hours? Oh dayum is that a cow in an open meadow when we should be seeing city lights? Bumper to bumper is bad enough but to include being lost! I guess it’s just another crazy thing to add on the adventurous excursion. Oh boy what day! ))

Vegas in Joliet?

Just so happened to go on a surprise excursion to Vegas….ok, ok not Vegas but Joliet, Il. for a little bit of lights and slot machines where nothing but the nostalga really mattered. Never could imagine how something so simple could turn out to be so much fun. Wasnt in the mood for eating big so had some of the best Wendy burgers in existence, lost my Iphone just to have some nice employee find it and spend some quality time with the lady. What else could a big kid like myself even ask for? Now it’s time to return to the real world where responsibily and obligation awaits. Dayum man!

Well….I’m not really a big fan of losing money but this was totally worth the price. Well….back to reality until next time.

Before Nap Time (cough, cough)

Lets face it, marijuana prohibition is a major waste of time and money. To put it simply, it’s a complete failure…(cough, cough)

Nationwide, U.S. law enforcement have arrested over 20 million American citizens for marijuana offenses yet today marijuana is more prevalent than ever before. Young people have easier access and it appears even more potent than usual…umm…from what I hear people say..(smirk). There’s even more violence associated with the illegal marijuana trade than ever before…what’s the point? (cough, cough)

Over 100 million Americans have used marijuana despite prohibition, and 1 in 10 use it regularly though I’m sure there’s more…ok, ok, I KNOW there’s more…

The criminal prohibition of marijuana has not dissuaded anyone from using or reducing its availability…however, the strict enforcement of this policy has negatively impacted the lives and careers of millions of people who simply choose to use a substance that is objectively safer than alcohol and cigarettes! C’mon Mr. man, are you serious!! (cough, cough)

The only difference between cannibis and some crazed FDA “legalized” drug that’ll eventually make you mummified or suffer from some kinda dyck shrinkage is taxation. You make the choice. Sheeesh!…in the meanwhile, I need to take a nap

Wired Up For A Mercedes

Are my eyes betraying me or is that not a so-called Mercedes Benz logo on the hood of a car made out of wire. Hmm…I wonder if they were truly serious or just trying to be funny. It’s crazy to see the things people would do nowadays for even the smallest bit of attention. Is being noticed that big of a deal? Dayum!

The way I see it, I wouldn’t put nothing past noone. Could you blame me? Sheeesh!

Baggy Saggy: The Sad Saggy Pants Phenom

I’ll could never really understand the whole big white T and baggy pants phenomenon. Everybody seems to be rockin’ the style which was intiated in the prison system to determine who was available for a lil’ bit of strokin’ and pokin’….if you know what I mean. Now is that how you like to be associated?….for some, maybe so. Hmmm…Sometimes I even wonder if there’s actually two people in them digs. I’m sure it’s pretty difficult to run knowing you’re fitting the perfect descrip of the common criminal so why wear them. You’re definitly drawing the wrong type of attention to yourself. Solution: Don’t look the part and separate yourself from the stereotypical profile that’s been assigned to you. It’ll surely make life a little bit easier. I’m sure of it.

Ken Lewis steps his thievin’ azz down…finally!

Good, Good, Good! He should’ve been forced to resign over the Merrill Lynch deal months ago. What the hell happened there people. To say this dude is broke is a crock of doo-doo. He’s definitely not hurting financially. I’m pretty damn sure of it.

Bastards of America – shanking their customers for years and years.

2 Exist or 2 Live

I’m always preachin’ about the silly irony of life. In how it’s so freakin’ simple to live as if things will never change and that everything you see, do and hear will be the same as you see. To no fault of our own, it’s just how most folk exist. If only more of us could learn the importance of living for each individual day, loving and taking care of everything in it with sincerity and intent…with purpose, everything wouldn’t be as bad. One’s quality of life would be that much more enjoyable without any external changes necessary.

Going through the motions and expecting that the future will be exactly as we planned is a risky and naive habit that I must admit included me… but in all of this, I’ve learned an important fact: We all deserve to live and live well. And that includes cherishing the present day like it’s your last.

Waving goodbye to an emotional, self actualizin’ end of summer gave me exactly what I needed. Not just a warmer jacket but an opportunity to come clean with myself and to really wrap my weird mind around some pretty important points… to revise my values. reorganize my principals, priorities and beliefs.

So ask yourself…Is it about time to wash away all the bullshyat and keep the good to make it even better?

Life is just too short not to… so live and just NOT exist